What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings?

Negative feelings are something we all experience, and over the years, I’ve learned that how I respond to them makes a huge difference. Instead of letting them take over, I try to acknowledge them and work through them in ways that support my well-being. Here are some of the strategies that help me the most:

1. Accepting My Emotions Instead of Fighting Them

For a long time, I used to push away negative feelings, thinking they’d just disappear. But I’ve realized that accepting them—without judgment—actually helps them pass more quickly. Now, when I’m feeling down or frustrated, I remind myself that it’s okay and temporary.

2. Setting Boundaries to Protect My Energy

I’ve realized that certain situations or people drain my emotional energy. Learning to say “no” and prioritizing my own needs has been a big step in managing my emotions. Protecting my peace is a form of self-care.

3. Practicing Gratitude

Even on tough days, I try to remind myself of the good things in my life. Whether it’s writing down three things I’m grateful for or simply pausing to appreciate small moments, gratitude helps shift my focus from what’s wrong to what’s right.

4. Seeking Help When I Need It

There’s no shame in asking for help. If I ever feel like my emotions are too overwhelming to handle on my own, I don’t hesitate to reach out to a therapist or someone who can offer professional guidance. It’s one of the best things I’ve done for my mental health.

Final Thoughts

Negative emotions are a part of life, but I’ve learned that I don’t have to let them define me. By using these strategies, I’m able to navigate tough moments in a healthier way. What about you? How do you cope with negative feelings? Let’s talk in the comments!

2 responses to “How I Cope with Negative Feelings: My Go-To Strategies”

  1. cathymack62 Avatar

    Yes! I agree with all of this so much! Especially the part about boundaries and saying no. I am just now learning how to do this and it’s amazing!

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    1. Luxemultihyphenate Avatar

      I love this! Takes some time to master, but is so essential 💞

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