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Gratitude isn’t a one-size-fits-all response—it’s something I try to tailor based on the situation and the person involved. Over time, I’ve realized that expressing appreciation is most meaningful when it’s thoughtful, specific, and aligned with what the other person values. Here’s how I approach it:

1. When It’s My Team or Staff

When a staff member goes above and beyond, I make it a point to reward them in a way that acknowledges both their effort and their time. Depending on the situation, this could be a bonus, an extra day off, or even a half-day to recharge. But I never let the moment pass without a sincere, handwritten note. I believe the combination of tangible recognition and heartfelt words shows that I genuinely see and appreciate their contribution.

2. When It’s Family

Family support can come in so many forms—whether it’s advice, emotional support, or just showing up when I need them most. When I want to show my gratitude, I try to listen to what they’ve been saying (or hinting at) and give them something they’ve mentioned wanting or needing. Whether it’s a small item or something more meaningful, I always include a personal message to let them know how much I truly appreciate their support.

3. When It’s a Stranger

Kindness from strangers can catch you off guard in the best way. When someone does something unexpectedly kind—holding a door, helping with directions, or just offering a smile on a rough day—I make sure to stop, look them in the eye, and say thank you with genuine warmth. That moment of connection might seem small, but I’ve found that it matters more than we realize.

Gratitude, to me, is best expressed when it’s personal, sincere, and appropriate to the relationship and the moment.

Now I’d love to hear from you:

How do you express gratitude in different areas of your life? Do you think we sometimes overlook small opportunities to say thank you? What’s one memorable time someone showed you appreciation that really stuck with you?

Let’s keep the conversation going—gratitude is something worth sharing.